Closing the Space

It's a lonely world out there. Moving from strangers to acquaintances to friends is a process that takes time and effort (hopefully NOT money), but offers immense benefits. Some practical thoughts to get you started:

• Sit by someone you don't know, when attending an event where you know most people.
  
• When you run into someone you recognize, but don't necessarily remember, introduce yourself. Repeat as necessary.
  
• Address people by name. Smile.
  
• When selecting a seat, why leave a space between? If you like the person, just go in and sit next to them as if you were their friend.
  
• Drive together, like to meetings and parties.
  
• Schedule regular times with your friends, even if they aren't frequent. Make it a tradition, like coffee on the first day of school or lunch the third Friday of every month.
  
• When you have enough friends, continue to watch for those who may not.

One more suggestion: if you and I are acquainted, try leaving a comment here. It's almost like real conversation.